I dont believe in disposable relationships. Does friendship need to end if things do not work out right? There's nothing even final. I still believe friendship matters the most in any kind of relationship. But does one have to stop to give way to the other? Can't they not co-exist? Shouldn't they thrive despite of uncertainty? Shouldn't it continue to flow like a river? Shouldn't it last till the end? Should there be choosing?
Pains, hurts and uncertainties in life comes. Escape is the best medicine. At least for some. But the strong one's stand up and believe for the best. A friend always hopes, always trust, always protects, does not keep a record of wrong and it always perseveres. A friend is a person who loves at all times. Not because of something to be received in return. But a friend is a personification of love. A friend always loves. That is why we have a friend in Jesus.
When everything else goes out of bounce. When something else will be greater than friendship. I doubt it will last. Friendship must interweave every relationship. It must flow. It must be normative. It must be found in sports teams, churches, companies and marriages. It's the best relationship we can share with the person till the end. Nothing could be best. That's why I dont believe in "I hope we can be more than friends." A friend has no agenda. A friend is always there. Always trust, always hope, always persevere. It never fails. Friendship must not leave in pursuit of the other. For it to be understood one must read between the lines. 1 Corithians 13 "A friend."
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